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My lovely sam soon..This was the korean movie that i watched lately up until the 20th episode.. the hillarious movie which me, my sis and my mom have been addicted to from 8.30 - 9.30pm and we laugh so and so much loud.. a movie which when you laugh you watch and when you laugh you think and when you laugh you cry… this is the movie..

this movie was about this girl, in her 30, single, chubby, pastry chef, unemployed but has a good spirit of herself. she really hates her name, sam soon because in history, there was a girl who commit suicide with this name.. hence, she just hate it..

after she has been dumped by a cute young guy, suddenly there was a rich, handsome, cute, also young guy she met. This guy was about 27 years old. at the first met, this guy offer sam soon to be his chef in his restaurant then sam soon agreed.

this guy has his own history, a long time ago, he involved in one accident and his brother and sis in law died that time. At the same time his girlfren run away to state because she got cancer.  So his life has been so mirable those day until he met sam soon. then, his mom urges him to marry and he found that sam soon was a perfect match for him to make his mom even anger and they both make a contract and in that time sam soon really needs money, so she agreed and there 50 juta won for sam soon for the agreement.

In short, at last they fall in love. there are certain part in this story where this guy needs to send his x-girl back to state and he promise sam soon that he will be going for 2 weeks but end up, he missing for 2 months..and along that time, sam soon suffered all the way and the touch moment is when she said… in malay la ek i translate.."bercinta ini memang memenatkan.. " she’s really tired in falling in love because at the end she suffered.. and there was a time, she read at the bill board saying;

bercintalah, seakan akan anda tidak pernah di lukai..
bekerjalah, seakan akan anda akan dinaikkan pangkat esok hari..
bergembiralah, seakan akan esok adalah hari terakhir anda..

from there, she starts living.. and after 2 monthss passed by, suddenly that guy came back to her life.. and sam soon said its over between them, she said he just leave her without anything, no postcard, no call and no nothing.. plus, her mom siap pi temple pray that nothing happen to this guy.. but the guy just let himself missing..

then, the guy said, he did sent poscards.. but sam soon never received. And after the big fight, suddenly there was a another strange guy send a full box of postcards to her house.. and true, the guy did sent postcard.. and each and every place this guy visited, he write to sam soon.. he taught traveling alone can make him relief from anything come across.. but every moment he walks, he only wants her beside.. thats was so touching..

then, they got back together and thats it… happily ever after kot.. hmm, i dont know how to comment, but the moment which sam soon said, love is very tiring.. and yeah it true.. love is very very tiring.. because you dont know whether he felt the same way as you do.. and you dont know whether he accepts you as you are.. and love become more tiring when there is a gap between you.. and masa will merubah segalanya…

and what i like about sam soon is that she has a good spirit of herself. Regardless of how chubby but cute she are, she try to winwin the situation and she got what she dream and she go for it.. yeah, be real, but something that you can turn to real..and it is all about her dream man.. hmm probably it just a simple story line, but actually there are lots of makna tersirat when you watched and when you’re in that situation you will know when you cant really express in your words, writing, action and gesture, it just what you felt and you want him feel the same way you did. It is not the matter of whom you are about to choose, it is the matter of how you value your relationship, and how you accept the "crackpot" between you…and how you always feel great about yourself when you fall in  love..

25-4-2006, Tuesday..

yummy, makan makan again, this time, at rome pizza.. just celebrate after the project signed off. quite a few are there, sharul, raschit, kak hajar, kak faizah, shara, norazam.. hmm makan pizza again.. Wednesday will be out from town and weekend i think need to go back to kampungs.. just a plan since 1st May kita cuti.. need to visit my old granpa and aunties.. wait for me Parit ****** (depicted dont cry for me Argentina.. wait for me Argentina… can laa…)
Pray for the best for the days ahead!

tapi tak ada pics… maleh nak amik..

24-4-2006, Monday..

Lovely day, even it called Monday Blues… but not this week.. hehe a treat by bos and by someone need to flight to brunei. huhu

Yummy, a treat from our bos.. California Pizza Kitchen..it was my first time eat at this place, KLCC at 2nd floor i guess. oh well..walla.. superb.. i think for pizza and salad lovers.. this is your place..  for 8 people, 2 pan of pizza and some other side orders..it just make your life like heaven.. hehe.. ye la tu.. not to forget..gain couple kilos a nice sweet & sour sausage pizza, white pizza, fetucini (what ever it spelled), hamas aka roti nan hahaha, bbq salad, garlic bread and ice cream, it just make ourselves full..again, thanks to Bos and team for that makan makan.. yummies…! until we meet in October..  thumbs up! petang tu plak, makan float.. thanks for the treats ..

Saturday, 15-04-06
First session class started.. hmm still wink wink.. improved? hmm not yet? hmm a happy time to spend with and to be with..
Hehe.. somewhere.. then watch futsal.. urgh.. hmm.. terror nyer… tapi i still rasa Mr R adalah the best player, jgn marah!.. best player for rembatan jarak jauh @ best dress Mr S hahaha.. best pak lawak @ best kapten.. Mr H.. best lari lari anak @ best post.. Mr J.. hmm itu aje kot.. itu aje yang i kenal..but really miss futsaling.. shara……..bila nih, bola dah mengempis tu… i letak kat luar rumah, kena gigit ngan tikus nanti.. uwaa..siti, meha, any other girls, mari la kita bersukan.. ahahaa…good for your health, body, mind and soul..

Sunday, 16-04-06
Ad hoc plan.. walking and heading to KLCC then.. met hiSyam with his gurl.. and then what movie they watched? lucky number slevin.. then.. hmm ok.. lets watch Lucky no slevin.. then..ok right on..lucky no slevin.. then, sit, eat pop corn then, bang here bang there here there.. poning.. then josh harnet.. eh josh harnet ek? ye ke.. tak kot, apasal lain.. ehehe.. josh harnet daa.. uhuhu.. six pack aik.. no no 4 pack ajer.. jgn jeles.. better have something then nothing.. haha.. then lets heading to PC fair.. drizzling.. hmm romantic ke? .. lari lari anak.. then, beratur, pack giler.. 3 floor to go.. then, wandering.. hmm pack of people really crowded.. then, the last stop (last level).. fall into USB then mouse..nice AMD beg to bring home.. huhu.. share ok, this week i pakai and next week yours.. ahaha.. then, went out, stop at avenue K and drink.. then.. go back.. The pack and great weekend to spend with after a long miss-out moments. And it just it, april somehow is for me.. plus savvy dah sihat getting better…. huhu…

"Advice from someone who understands: When in doubt, close your eyes and just remember that God does everything for a reason. And as hard as that seems to believe, he does. With the faith you have in him, nothing can stop you; you will make it because of the faith you carry with you."

First Session

Date: 16th April 2006
Day: Sunday
Venue: Damansara

Synopsis: This module started when second met Mr Wan Abdul Razak, and i saw something in him which his junior(s) don’t have. ;-).. Then, i’ve begin to initiate something for the benefits of his junior, son, reader and to whom it may concern… not to compare ok..(It just a sharing, don’t take it personally, only the specific person should!) The first met was only the beginning, hi bye and a little smile. Then, the second met started unexpectedly. He gave me ideas. He began to talk about house, thats truly..what a woman really wants.. haha..learn from that. Then, vacation! wow… hmm.. nice to hear.. Then, i knew a little more to dig out.. and little by little .. there are surely something good to share with ..

This is the article i’ve found out sort of useful for readings, but a bit complicated. To make it simple, just join the class..DONT miss. 6-month crash course. haha.. make it a lite reading.. first reading material..

Summary:
1. Don’t talk about your girl saving or discuss about financial with your girl, no 50-50.. haha
2. Invite her in anything, e.g when you eat, or plan for vacation, dont wait your father to invite her
3. ……… i’ll add later in the course outline..

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man  was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour a day to drain the fluids from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and   families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military  service, where they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the  man in the bed next to the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed would live for those one-hour periods where  his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and  color of the outside world. The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake, the man had said. Ducks and swans played on the water while  children sailed their model boats. Lovers walked arm in arm amid flowers of every color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite  detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.  Although the other man could not hear the band, he could see it in his mind’s eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive  words. Unexpectedly, an alien thought entered his head: Why should hehave all the pleasure of seeing everything while I never get to see  anything? It didn’t seem fair. As the thought fermented, the man felt  ashamed at first. But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment and soon turned him sour. He   began to brood and found himself unable to sleep. He should be by that  window - and that thought now controlled his life.

Late one night, as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window  began to cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man   watched in the dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for help. Listening from across the room, he never moved, never pushed his own button which would have brought the nurse running. In less than five minutes, the coughing and choking  stopped, along with the sound of breathing. Now, there was only silence–deathly silence.

The following morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendant to take it away–no  words, no fuss. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the man asked if he  could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his   first look. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.

Moral of the story:

The pursuit of happiness is a matter of choice…it is a positive attitude we consciously choose to express. It is not a gift that gets delivered to our doorstep each morning, nor does it come through the window. And I am certain that our circumstances are just a small part of what makes us joyful. If we wait for them to get just right, we will never find lasting joy.

The pursuit of happiness is an inward journey. Our minds are like   programs, awaiting the code that will determine behaviors; like bank vaults awaiting our deposits. If we regularly deposit positive, encouraging, and uplifting thoughts, if we continue to bite our lips  just before we begin to grumble and complain, if we shoot down that seemingly harmless negative thought as it germinates, we will find that there is much to rejoice about.

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through that little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly. He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.

   
Seperti kelaziman tahunan, umat Islam di Malaysia akan menyambut hari sempena keputraan Rasulullah saw pada 12 Rabiulawal setiap tahun.Umat Islam di Malaysia akan mengadakan berbagai aktiviti dalam acara sambutan Maulidur Rasul. Kerajaan Malaysia mengisyhtiharkan 12 Rabiulawal setiap tahun adalah cuti umum. Diantara acara-acara dalam sambutan Maulidur Rasul ialah Perarakan, Syarahan, Forum, Marhaban dan Jamuan di peringkat kampung sehinggalah ke peringkat kebangsaan.

Dalam menentukan tarikh kelahiran Rasulullah saw, ahli-ahli sejarah Islam berbeza pendapat. Pendapat pertama dan masyhur ialah Rasulullah saw lahir pada malam Isnin 12 Rabiulawal dalam Tahun Gajah sebelum subuh. Ini adalah pendapat Ibnu Ishaq yang dipetik oleh Ibnu Hisham dalam kitabnya yang terkenal, Sirah Ibnu Hisham. Dan pendapat yang kedua ialah pendapat yang mengatakan bahawa Rasulullah saw memang lahir pada malam Isnin, sebelum subuh Rabiulawal tahun Gajah tapi tarikh sebenarnya ialah pada 9 haribulan.

Diantara tokoh ulamak-ulamak yang sependapat mengatakan Rasulullah saw lahir pada 9 Rabiulawal ialah Yunus bin Yazid, Ibnu Hazam, Muhammad bin Musa Al-Khawarizmi dan Ibnu Taimiyyah. Dan diantara tokoh-tokoh falak moden yang membuat kajian semula tentang perbezaan pendapat ini ialah Mahmud Pasya seorang ahli falak Mesir dan Dr.(H) Hj. Kassim Bahali, Persatuan Falak Syarie Malaysia. Mereka menyatakan bahawa Rasulullah saw lahir pada 9 Rabiulawal. Ini adalah berdasarkan kepada Taqwim Qamariah tulen tanpa Nasi’ dan dikebelakangkan 53 tahun dari tahun pertama Hijrah.

Didapati bulan kelahiran Rasulullah saw iaitu bulan Rabiulawal jatuh pada bulan April 571 M. Berdasarkan hitungan, Ijtimak berlaku pada 10 April 571M pada 8;21 UT. Menurut kaedah kebolehnampakan hilal, 1 Rabiulawal jatuh pada hari Ahad, 12 April 571M dan hari Isnin yang bertepatan adalah 9 Rabiulawal manakala 12 Rabiulawal jatuh pada hari Rabu.

Dalil seterusnya yang mengatakan bahawa Rasulullah lahir pada 9 Rabiulawal ialah pada Isnin 9 Rabiulawal (20 April), fasa bulan adalah 64.4% dan bulan ghurub pada pukul 2:26 pagi. Apabila bulan ghurub awal maka langit ketika itu kelihatan cerah dengan bintang-bintang yang dapat dilihat lebih banyak kerana tiada gangguan cahaya bulan. Ini bertepatan dengan kisah kelahiran sewaktu dilahirkan Rasulullah saw bahawa sebelum subuh, langit adalah kelihatan sangat cerah dengan cahaya bintang-bintang yang bertaburan. Walau bagaimanapun, itu adalah pendapat individu tertentu dengan pengkajian mereka.

Moga ada pihak lain yang dapat membuat kajian lebih lanjut dalam menetapkan tarikh kelahiran Rasulullah saw. Kajian-kajian lanjut itu sebenarnya akan lebih memajukan lagi perkembangan ilmu Sejarah dan Falak. Malah tarikh-tarikh peristiwa penting Islam yang lain juga wajar dibuat hitungan semula. Kita umat Islam di alaf baru sekarang telah banyak melahirkan ahli-ahli Sejarah Moden, Falak / Astronomi dan ahli-ahli Sains yang lain yang pastinya akan mengembang dan menyumbang kepada penguasaan ilmu pengetahuan kepada pembangunan ummah, InsyaAllah.

Objektif diadakan sambutan Maulidur Rasul ialah untuk mengembalikan ingatan kita umat akhir zaman terhadap junjungan besar kita Muhammad Rasulullah saw. Dengan mengingatinya akan menambahkan lagi perasaan cinta kasih kepadanya serta mengenang, menghargai serta mengambil iktibar kisah suka duka perjuangannya. Walaupun sambutan Maulidur Rasul ini adalah satu adat sahaja tapi ia adalah adat yang bersifat ibadah dan wajar diteruskan, InsyaAllah.

Yesterday, my dad drove my car and suddenly when he came home, he said my car got hit by this moron, reverse tapi tak notice my cute savvy ada kat belakang.. hmm first, i got emotional when my dad told me, but second wise thought, things had happened, cannot blame anyone, and not my dad, bukan salah dia, but feel guilty when i do very the monyok face to my dad.. sorry abah, i just want to control myself better after this… im in gloomy day yesterday, nak buat kerja pun half willing… Then, as usual, ‘my big’ surprise came, hekhek.. thanks for showing up, i know, i can count on you.. dapat chocolate lagi.. hehe now he is learning to be like his dad.. i like that!but still lot more to learn!

Today, my dad sent my car to ketuk.. sorry abah again.. you can have that car after this, but give me yours la..

Has everything settle down? Last week, a tough week for me to go through.. things came upside down.. hmm saturday, im just make myself available for something, away for a gloomy day, away from the burn-out-stress-out situation. Cure me please!

Ice Age 2, Meltdown?  Meltingdown? movie that on-the-spot to watch. Me and Shara, after getting up from something.. then we heading to GSC. Gubra or Ice Age 2 (ice age seem childish) never expected it turned out to be 2-thumbs up and awesome movie for us. We havent stop laughing the moment we sit in until we stepped out.. haha, even we are so heartache.. but that manny, sid and diego really cool us down.. haha, better spend time with them rather than the earth living creature.. but.. watak yang really tackle me is sid.. dia macam shara.. really confident what he doing… even sometimes he cannot do it but still he got strong believe in himself.. shara, need to learn lots from you! Nak pinjam DVD sesiapa… hekhek!

The nite that re-unite us. It saved for 2-3 time. And i dont know how long it will be after this. But i pray for the goodness and togetherness to be with him. As my destiny, my life, my heart, my love, my everything destine to him… just don’t let me down.. (T_T)

I got choc for that nite, and the next day we shared ice-cream..
I got you tonite, tommorrow hope it’s not the end..
We have gone through alot, hope the flame wont keep burning..
And as i stood alone, doing nothing all the day, thinking what can i do to fix things like the same way..
and how can i go through this life without you in both of my side way..

p/s: hehe.. ignore the colors, assume this is black and white photo! LOL!

"Things have been said, it been said for nothing, things that have been done, it done purposely for nothing, things that meant, it meant only for togetherness and not to the hard way…"