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Part time..

06-05-06, Saturday..

The Curve’s bazzar. this is the place where i did my part time first time a help lend to my sis with upah. .. Was not really good in sales, thats why i asked someone to accompany me, my business partner ;-).. This was my sis’s kedai.  She’s selling the home deco stuff like table runner, cushion cover, table cloth, Victoria Secret Perfume & Lotion, etc..So, (PROMOTE).. anyone, who loves decorating ur home, then, this is the place to shop..

Along the day, one topic came out by my business partner.. EXPRESSION vs EXPRESSIONLESS.. Are people with expression better than people without expression? Of course people with expression better because people can see clearly the message is conveyed.  But are they being truth? When you say something, they just node ur head, with sweet smile, repeating what ur saying, feeling themselves luvly.. but do they perceived? Whilst the one expressionless.. they act like they don’t listen, but sometimes somehow, they trying to find to solution for you even they can’t get it right away, but they keep trying..they are the one who actually listen to u.. in fact, they just can’t sleep whenever you tell them, the words u throw to them, they just need time to think.. and even, sometimes what ur saying is not what u meant last time, then, they just keep it quiet and continue listen.. they want to argue, but they argue in their heart, they want to respond but they just keep in for while, because sometimes, the word just cant come out from their mouth, eyes and expression… There are people play with emotion, and there are people born emotionless.. just accept the fact.. people are not perfect..

But why are u being EXPRESSIONLESS? There are reasons:-
- when someone critisize u.. u have right to be expressionless, some people hard to accept criitics.. it just makes them feel down.. so by do nothing, at night, they will think, am i?
- when u dont want to start arguement and blame people and bring ur past.. so expressionless is important
- when u feel u r not important…  example, ur bf said , he really busy, do this do that .. (u feel u r not important to them anymore like u have been bugging him all this while).. for you it clearly meant.. give me a break!
- when u feel down.. expressionless… when u feel sad.. when people  tell how wonderful their life is, good job, good family, have good boyfriends, girlfriends, partners, dapat bonus, get this and that.. while u.. u got nothing…. so being expressionless is important rather than, just noded ur head and pretend happy hearing all that.. while ur heart just crushing apart.. it is not that u dont want to listen, it just, it will demotivate u.. some people, they dont get the motivation that easy.. so, before u open ur mouth, just becareful, whether the expressionless guy is in the mood or not..

Looking at the bright side..there are reasons for something, if u know ur partner better you’ll know.  It is not being expressionless is good, but some people is better to be expressionless. Just give time to know each other better and time to make changes. If it annoys you too much, then.. go and find the people with expression.. Because sometimes, its tiring to know u r not good at this and that.. and its tiring when u feel u not good in everything.. if you want to drop everything of just because being expressionless .. ???…

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